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FOURTH BORN
The third born tries to pass on the feeling of vulnerability by telling the fourth born he or she is not mature enough to play with the older children, leaving the fourth born feeling immature and unwanted.
Characteristic Bad Feeling Anger
Strategies for survival: Not listening to self, Trying hard
Felt Loss: Belonging
Sense of Justice: There is no justice, you can only get even
Thought Pattern: Analysis
T-shirt: "Life isn't easy, you have to try hard"
Childhood Behavior: Uninvolved, Secretive
Emotional Expression: Anger, Empathy
Source of Anger: Blame
Nature of Humor: Insults
Means of Relating: Entertaining
Spirituality: Mystical
Relational: Feels trapped by other's feelings, controller
The Child Within: Isolated
Type of Procrastination: Puts things off to think about the possible ramifications
Blind spot: Trust
Boundaries: Strict for self, Not allowed for others
A walk in the woods: Does not go in the woods but tells others where to go and how to get there
Careers: Management, Teaching, Comedy, Dentistry, Factory
Strengths: Thinking, Understanding, Hard worker
Parenting: A buddy to the children
Marriage: Provider
As Friend: Does not take initiative
Social Contributions: Philosophy, Managing People
Expression of Love: Giving
Driving Style: Drives slowly while gazing at the surroundings
Listening Style: Listens to self or the other, but not both at same time
Common Phrase: "Try Hard"
Responds To: "This may be hard for you to believe, but...."
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